"We love because he first loved us." 1 John 4:19 (NIV)
I don't recall what my son did. I just remember his reaction to my husband Pat's discipline. It was unlike any time before.
"You're not my dad!" Mitch screamed with rage. "I hate you, I hate you!" he added between sobs.
I was shocked as I watched the two of them
battle out their affections. I had never seen our son behave that way
before. He was completely out of control and overwhelmed with anger,
fear and pain. He had lost one dad in death. Could he trust this one?
Pat fell to his knees and embraced our son.
Mitch fought him. Without letting go, Pat spoke calmly, "You can hate me
if you want, but I will always love you." Pat struggled to keep his
arms around Mitch as he tried to pull loose. "You're my son. I will
never leave you-no matter what."
With every word Pat whispered into Mitch's
ear as he held him tightly, Mitch's fears began to melt away. Suddenly,
his body relaxed and he returned his father's embrace.
It was a defining moment for us all. In that
instant, our faces still wet with tears, we realized Mitch had let down
his guard. He began to believe in his father, to accept his father's
love, and to offer love in return. He didn't do it because Pat was his
playmate or because he filled a certain role in Mitch's life. He did so
because he had been loved even though he had rejected that love at
first.
Pat mirrored the character of our heavenly
Father when he vowed to always love Mitch and never let him go. Pat was
saying to our son as God says to us, "No matter what, I'm here for you."
What a beautiful picture of our key verse. "We love because he first loved us."
Our heavenly Father is not some far away God.
He is near to us and we can approach Him, regardless of our needs. Our
Father wants to be involved in every detail of our lives. He wants to
know and share in our joys and our pains. Mostly, God wants us to know
He loves us and there's not a thing we can do to change that.
I find it interesting that the word "Father,"
referring to God, is often translated "Papa" or "Daddy" in Scripture.
These expressions of endearment comfort me as I equate them to my
earthly dad. But perhaps you've never had an earthly father to turn to
in times of celebration or sorrow.
Maybe your dad was absent and uncaring
instead of loving and available to you. If so, you've discovered that
not all people love sincerely and you've been hurt. I'm so sorry and I'm
praying today that you'll believe this truth: no matter what you've
done, or what's been done to you, you have a heavenly Father and you can
cry out "Daddy!" any time, any place, anywhere.
His love is
unconditional. Will you allow God to wrap His loving arms around you
and wash away all your fears as He whispers to your heart, "I'm here for
you-no matter what" today?
Dear Lord, thank You for Your
unconditional love. Please give me the grace I need to stop fighting and
to receive Your love. In Jesus' Name, Amen. (Micca Monda Campbell)
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